Have you just found yourself in a new relationship? Thinking about the ways to grow your beautiful relation?
Well, entering into a relationship isn’t like tearing the wrapper off your Christmas present. You have to take your time to open the layers. And, so, there are certain things you need to do in a new relationship if one day you don’t want to wake up and find yourself all alone because of a few unintentional actions you made while your relationship was blossoming.
So, here is list of 5 Things You Should Never Do In A Healthy Relationship:
1.Don’t Pretend to Like Something which You actually Hate
Never pretend to like something that you like just because your partner is a big fan of it. May it be a song, a colour, a cuisine, or any material ; you and your partner both have your own taste. You don’t need to compromise with that just to please your partner. If he/she forces you to like the things she/he likes, then accept that your partner isn’t in love with you and is not true to you. If you try to change your likings, then you aren’t true to yourself and you are most likely losing your identity.
2.Don’t Use Texting to Discuss Your Relationship
Texting is great for checking in with a funny quip when you’re stuck at work or to touch base if you’re making plans for later, but if you need to discuss anything deeper than that, stick to phone calls or, better yet, face-to-face discussions. If you can’t handle the hard stuff in person, you’re either with the wrong person or you aren’t ready for a serious relationship.
3.Don’t Stop Hanging out with Your Friends
In a new relationship, it can be quite tempting to spend every waking minute with your partner, but be sure to make time for your friends too. Never forget or avoid your old friends for your partner because they are the ones who have stayed beside you through thick and thin. If you start avoiding your friends, it would be clear that you never needed their company specifically, you only needed them when you had no one. This may give people a chance to judge you, maybe your partner too.
4.Don’t Stop yourself to Speak Your Mind
Tell your partner whatever your opinion about something is. Never hesitate to put your own views about something. If you continue following what he/she wants without giving your own views, you are most likely losing your respect slowly. You should put your thoughts and your views in front of your partner as it is necessary to both of you to know and understand each other better. Try to be genuine to your partner. Talk about how you feel—you’ve got nothing to lose. There’s no point keeping your partner in the dark about things. The more they get to know you at the start of the relationship, the better.
5.Don’t Change your Appearance
Never try to impress your partner with fake appearance or a new appearance. He/she might have fallen for you at the 1st place by the way you are. Moreover, if your partner doesn’t like something about your appearance and would like if you change, you don’t need to change because at the end of the day, it’s important to keep yourself happy—there’s no point changing, and being unhappy, only to impress somebody. Love your own self first and respect yourself. Never be the puppet for somebody.
Relationships become a beautiful journey only if you know which stones to step on to and where is the journey heading to. Just be honest to yourself and your partner and enjoy the time of your life.
“You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover’s arms can only come later when you’re sure they won’t laugh if you trip.”